Attachments and D-ttachments:

When we’re talking about life we talk about ‘WEALTH’, ‘FAME’, ‘TECHNOLOGY’, ‘LUXURIES’ and, so on in all these big jumbles of words we’ve forgotten to talk about LOVE, DESTINY, HAPPINESS, and more. Today, in the 21st century, where virtually everything is technological and materialistic, where everyone has only one pressure to make more and more money, to gain fame, to live a comfortable yet luxurious lifestyle and, etc. Our “FEELINGS” were completely overlooked and concealed deep in the middle of our souls.

Among us, it is there but it is unseen. It feels like we no longer feel something or maybe we don’t want to feel anything anymore. Is this all about life? Get success and enjoy its luxuries, to make more money. What sense would these luxuries allow if there is nobody to share our food with at the table? If there’s no one with us to sit by the couch and chat about memories of life and childhood.

People used to make money in the early days to make a decent life for themselves and their loved ones, but now we are making money to make a loved one. Joy, emotions, sincerity, real relation, love, care, and much more. These are the words that used to be used a long time ago but with the time they have faded away from our dictionaries. Dictionary of Life. In today’s time, people who cover their troubles, struggle, sorrows, pain, and tears behind a huge fake smile are considered to be Strong.

Integrity and Equity:

Looks like we have changed the Integrity and Equity concepts. We don’t accept having sincere feelings for a real person. Having said that, there is a very major “MENTAL HEALTH” problem in our society.  It’s sort of an odd thing for our society people. Oh, is it odd to recover from a traumatic event, a breakdown of relationships, or something that has somehow influenced your life, heart, and mind? But yeah, after a three-month relationship, some people go through mental collapse, well, I think that’s funny now.

We have forgotten the true meaning of love, the sense of loving, and being loved. Relationships have now gone a long way away from truth, intimacy, loyalty, and integrity. People just come and go. For most people moving on now isn’t that hard. But there are still some people out there in this fast-moving world and technology who have true feelings, people who know how to love, and people who know “What is love,” but in the same world, there are also some people who fear “Falling in love,” People who fear to feel LOVE, people who don’t talk about emotions, lonely people, and people who don’t feel only from the inside out are sensitive, people who care, desire and want to be loved but never embrace it.

You see this World is another place for us all. It is a great joy to some but a pain for some of us.

Experiences:

When people have been discarded or dug up a few times, when their emotions have been made fun of, when their integrity has been effected in the worst way when their life’s love gets away from them. Then this feeling of detachment they have gone through makes them cold and harsh in the worst way, as experiencing bad things over and over again is not an easy task to handle. But isn’t it life all about? Experiences. Good, Bad. Lovely, Ugly. Best and Worst. Experiences are what makes us Weak or Strong. There are times and points in our lives where we fell into complete despair and hopelessness, Some of us also try to take our lives where we can’t even think of what to do and what not. But that is not an option. Because Life goes on and so do us, no matter what.

Little Things in Life:

Life is a blessing for all of us and we should learn to embrace it at all times. In every situation, in every hardship, we must learn to carry on with it. These bad experiences shatter us into pieces but there’s nothing we can’t overcome. With the passage of time we all heal. We are strong enough to tolerate these little mental breakdowns and heartbreaks. We just need to give more time to ourselves. In every little thing we need to pursue happiness, for this is where happiness and love lie in little but beautiful things.

No human can live alone on Earth and live happily. We all need someone to express our sadness, our problems, our happiness, and our love with. No doubt we have to bear the frustration of life, but it feels much worse when you’re alone. But if there’s someone to fill light in your darkness, to become hope in your hopelessness, to become your strength at your weakest, to be your words in your silence, to fill your emptiness, to bear the hardest days of life with you and to love you at moments when you’re even hard to bear then Life becomes easier and Beautiful.

This is what they call Love. It takes time to find your way sometimes but finally, you will find your way. So to all those people who are afraid of falling in love, feeling affection or, having some kind of emotional attachment to someone, this is for you,

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Open the doors to your heart and let the light shine through it, I know that you went through a lot alone but that’s what made you feel it.

Offer anyone a chance and let them stay, Life is long enough to live alone, find happiness in every little thing.

It’s hard to believe when it’s broken a million times but that doesn’t mean there’s no one left trustworthy.

Perhaps not every story ends with “Lived Happily Ever After,” but several stories end with “I want to have you hereafter in existence.”

Oh dear! Do not be afraid to bear every little feeling because life is too long to be unhappy and miserable, but too short to be loved and cherished.

No one knows where they will be in a few moments so live every moment to the fullest.

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and as Rumi says,

To Love is Human.

To feel pain is Human

Yet to still Love despite the pain is Pure Angel.

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